Dating dilemma
05/21/2003
Ok so I have been in a funk since Sunday afternoon. I was surfing through some personals and imagine my surprise when I find someone I wanted to date on the site. His ad went up about a month after I met him. For some reason this feels like a slap in the face.
I had met this guy a few months ago. We have a few things in common, he lives nearby and I thought he was attractive. We had a short conversation and he told me he would call me and take me out for coffee. The call never came, after a week I just forgot about him. I guessed he was dating someone or lost the number or something. I am not a girl that just sits and waits for the phone to ring so I just blew it off.
My big dilemma is what to do with this information. Do I call him again? Do I spend $20.00 to sign onto the site just to send an email? Do I just blow it off? I am just confused. I don’t want to seem like a stalker, & I don’t want to be rejected again. I don’t know if he would even respond, or if I want him to respond. It seems that the best action right now is no action
I spent the evening filing fingerprint again. There are some nice woman that work in the ID section. They didn’t realize I was dong volunteer work. They asked me what my work schedule was and who I scheduled my time with. I responded I would drop by occasionally when I didn’t have other plans. There were quizzical looks and I explained this was a volunteer gig for me, I don’t get paid, didn’t want a schedule and was just lending a hand because I heard they were in box city. I think they understand now.
